While all this with Jack had been going in, I’d been keeping in touch with Jill. It’s important to maintain that contact, nothing more than a hi, how you doing is all that’s needed most of the time.
A recurring theme in our discussions was can RLV be any good? It’s not something I wanted to push and indeed I tried not to, but it is something that came up in just about every conversation. I didn’t try to justify its use, after such an experience anything I’d have to say would be received with scepticism. Still it was something that kept coming up and I suspected that part of the closure would be a better understanding of RLV and how some people can get something out of it.
There is no way I’d consider asking Jill to go in to RLV and allowing me to show her how I could use RLV to enhance her experience. I didn’t think such an approach would yield good results, so I suggested that she allow me to teach her how to use RLV as a dominant. This is something that I’ve done for many people; typically I’ll use a set of cuffs that the dominant prefers and work through an RP, showing when and why certain RLV restrictions might be employed.
There was some hesitation but she accepted my offer, so without further ado I dusted off my cuffs and invited her to my place. I fell in to my usual patter and Jill was attentive, asking good questions and so on. Now if you’ve been following my recent posts on RLV you’ll hopefully appreciate that I’m actually quite light on RLV, preferring to use it only where it makes sense. It wasn’t long before Jill appreciated the distinction, and it wasn’t long before she started doing something no one else I’ve instructed has done…her questions started being asked in (( )) and before you know it the lesson developed in to something more.
Unfortunately I had limited time available, so we took a raincheck, I’m sure it’ll be collected one day.
So with her new found appreciation of RLV as a tool for bondage, will we see Jill in RLV any time soon? Somehow I doubt it and it won’t be with just anyone; which is perfectly fine. RLV is powerful and deserves to be treated with respect.